Nigerian media figure Abisoye Olukoya Michael, better known as Oyemykke, has opened up about being sexually abused at the age of four by a 30-year-old family acquaintance named Aunty Saida.
In a viral Instagram video, Oyemykke recounted the trauma, connecting his story to singer Simi’s recently resurfaced controversial tweet involving a four-year-old, which emerged amid false assault claims against Mirabel.
He revealed that the abuse began when he was left in Aunty Saida’s care and happened repeatedly, leaving deep emotional scars.
The media personality said the experience stole his childhood innocence and impacted his early years in ways he is only now able to discuss publicly. He added that what started as inappropriate touching eventually escalated, all under the pretense of babysitting.
“I was graped by four different women at childhood. I was disvirgined by an older woman. In fact I was repeatedly graped until I was twelve. That’s one of the reasons I’m very hyper‑sexual. I speak to therapists till today. Aunty Saida was the first to grape me at the age of 4. She molested me repeatedly, playing with my tiny manhood. Aunty Saida was about 28 to 30 years old then, I was 4.”
Oyemykke said that his decision to speak out was prompted by Simi’s old tweet, in which she recounted a four-year-old boy attempting to kiss her and jokingly considered letting him.
He criticized the singer for not owning up to the implications of her words, arguing that they reflected harmful behavior even if she did not act on it. He called on her to issue a public apology rather than respond defensively.
“Simi, you said that the kid, a four year old was sexualizing you. You wrote those things. And instead of coming outside to apologize, you’re defending your acts, and this is where the issue is. You need to apologise and let this entire situation go down”
He pointed out that many men in Nigeria have experienced abuse at the hands of older women but seldom speak out, and he hopes that sharing his story will inspire other survivors to do so.
“Most men were disvirgined, played with as a child by an elderly woman. 8 out 10 men I personally know were graped or abused by an elderly woman when they were younger but because we are told from young to bottle stories like this we keep quiet but it’s happening.”
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Read some comments below:
@nifemi_os:”Went to an only boys school, and there were lots of stories. But I assure you, most of them aren’t speaking publicly cos they either know the person still, or just like therapy. They don’t care that much for it.”
@Wizkid_Parody99:”Auty tosin na she disvirgin me at 4 doing all sorts of things with my d!ck followed by dorin our house help.”
@Cr7Godbrand:”One advantage women have is that men often don’t speak up. There are far more female pedophiles than male pedophiles, but they are rarely acknowledged. Society’s assumption of female innocence is often used to get away with these crimes.”
@ministersop:”Funny how, many of us guys were abused at a very young age, In my case I was just 9!!! And this lady was almost 30. My best friend back then in high school was also abused at 9 years old by an elderly house girl…”
@royale_haul:”Omg this comment section is heartbreaking 😭 As a mother of a boy myself, this really hurts 💔 Sending love and healing to every man who has gone through any form of abu.se and couldn’t speak up. Your pain is valid and you deserve peace ❤️”
