Nollywood actress Dayo Amusa has sparked conversation online after sharing her opinion on the role of sexual compatibility in marriage.
Taking to her X account, the actress stated that couples should consider whether they are sexually compatible before making a lifelong commitment to each other. According to her, individuals who have little or no interest in sexual intimacy may not be well-suited for marriage.
Dayo explained that while two people who enter marriage as virgins may be able to grow and adapt together without many preconceived expectations, the situation can be different for those who have had previous sexual experiences. She noted that such individuals often come into relationships with established preferences, desires, and expectations.
The actress further emphasized that living together before marriage involves more than sharing bills and household responsibilities. In her view, physical intimacy remains a significant aspect of cohabitation and should not be ignored when couples are evaluating their compatibility.
Her words…
“If sex is not your thing, you shouldn’t be married and that is why I do not believe people aren’t meant to co-habit before marriage..Two virgins getting married without any wild desires may cope, but for the tested ones, we all have our sexual desires, demands and preferences.
“The essence of co-habitation is beyond cooking and laying of bedsheets, sex is top 3 and it’s not even number two or three.. Get down with your partners well so you’ll know what you’re planning to live with for life! Know if you’re compatible I recommend sexual compatibility before decision is reached.”