Nigerian medical doctor and content creator Aproko Doctor has sparked conversations online after revealing that his wife, Chef Amaka, did not fit the image of his ideal partner when they first met.
Speaking during an interview, Aproko Doctor explained that although his wife didn’t match the physical “spec” he had imagined, he fell in love with her because of her personality, values, and compassion.
“My wife didn’t look anything like the spec I created in my head. It was what she was saying, her thoughts, and most importantly, her heart for people. She was peace for me.”
His remarks have generated mixed reactions on social media. While some applauded him for highlighting the importance of character over physical appearance, others argued that publicly stating one’s spouse was not their “spec” could be hurtful, regardless of the intended message.
The comments come shortly after Chef Amaka shared her emotional journey living with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) and the hurtful remarks she endured about her appearance and fertility after their marriage.
Reactions
@Chick_da_viva
Lol! Make I no talk sha. Una doh oh😣
@lorhlardae
As much as I understand what he’s trying to preach. I don’t still think it’s okay to necessarily point out that your partner isn’t your ideal spec. It rubs me off the wrong way.
@PreshAmiki
Once marriage wan break. Them go go podcast.
@dibilidingdong
This one na male Motara… Steady rubbing mid in her face.
@Nwanyi_Umuahia
Omo! If I no be your spec no come for me o make this kain statement in the future.
@Sommy_pe
Did Nonso really say this or you guys made it up?
@TendernessAG
A woman should say this oooo, if not she will be crucified. 😁😁
@Anita_Izato
Omo! Dey watch video o! Even after begging you people not to misquote him, you still came and misquote him.
@NgoziPreshy
Nawa ooo. This talk wasn’t necessary. Ur wife said she cried when people said he wasn’t man enough. God abeg oooooooo.
@manuelsingor
You no even fine yourself and you are creating a spec in your head 😏
@sirvvage
That’s his personal problem 😂