A Nigerian pastor has advised women on how to handle a husband who cannot provide financially.
The man named Ufuom Bernard stated that 9 out of 10 men hate their wives when she pays the bills at home and they will eventually leave the wife for another woman they can give to.
According to him, providing, feeds a man’s ego and he loses that ego when he can’t give.
He then told women to leave men who can’t provide for them.
He wrote: “Doc, you’re relatively right but miss the salient point. On a scale of 1-10, 9 men detest wives who pick their bills because patriarchy say NO. Men are patriarchal. This is classical male chauvinism. This is not only cultural but biological.
“As a pastor I see things even if I choose not to talk. A dude will take money from the wife and lavish it on a random girl. Giving to a woman feeds the ego of men while taking from a woman bruises his ego.
“Unless a man is down with debilitating disease no Alfa woman ( except pick me) should lift a finger to feed a man. Push him to the street.”
His post was in reaction to a lady who wrote that she has no issues helping her husband financially when he’s down.
The man’s comment stating that men hate wives who handle their financial reaponsibilities has now been endorsed by men.
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