In the wake of Dabota Lawson and Diiadem’s clash, Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing has spoken on the pressure to belong in the Lagos big girls club.
In a social media post, she shared her thoughts, saying she has never been interested in identifying herself with the big girl lifestyle. She noted how many are living on aesthetics, and the moment you go close to them, you pity them.
Nkechi said she is American broke, and as long as she can afford three square meals and flight tickets, she is good to go. She added that the pressure to belong isn’t for someone like her who enjoys her privacy and space.
“Na Una want he friends with self-acclaimed Lagos big girls by force people wey be say na online aesthetic want wound them, the moment you go close you go too pity them.
Me I be Yankee broke girl. I no kuku identify with anything big girl, make I sha dey see food chop and ticket money to fly round the world. Who get pass me no concern me.
The pressure to belong to the so-called Lagos big girls can never be forgotten, someone like me that likes my space. But when matter of 100m to 200m sup we go chest am without flinching. Cos we no dey post lifestyle dem go call us broke”.
