Nigerian men who have been in romantic relationships with white ladies have taken to social media to share stories of how their white spouses served them ‘’breakfast’ with no reason at all.
It all started when an X user @odohumeh shared the story of how he received divorce papers from his Dutch wife without l prior notice from her.
According to him, they woke up one morning and she said she was divorcing him. He mentioned that the his saving grace was that the law, unknown to her, had been amended to grant residency to a spouse who has been married for three years and above even if a divorce is granted.
He said the issue tested him greatly but he found peace after realizing he could stay in the country even after divorce. . He said his Dutch wife tried to get back with him later but he rejected her.
My oyibo wife woke up one morning and told me she is divorcing me. Wait! She didn’t tell me, they sent me a paper written in Dutch. I took the paper to work the following day so my colleague will help me interpret. That’s how i got to know it’s a divorce paper.
I have only been in the country for 3 years, so my ex wanted to divorce and send me back to Africa since she gave me papers.
Turns out, as we later found out, that the country has amended their law and now allows one to complete their stay as stipulated on their paper, so long the marriage lasted at least 3 years (I had 5 years papers then).
Upon realization, my ex tried to mend fences and get us back, but it’s too late.
I was afraid. She owned me. I submitted to her whims and caprices because I feared i would lose my right to stay if she divorces me. When the divorce papers came i went into depression. I began to lose weight. Where do i begin from? How do i go back home and face my people? I pleaded with her but it fell on deaf ears. She even booked a one-way ticket for me. She said it’s her own little way of helping me transition to my new reality.
You need to see her disappointed when we found out i could stay. I moved out and rented my own space-far from her and her troubles.
It’s been years now. That period really tested me but i thank God for God.”
Responding to his post, another Nigerian man recounted how hours after having s#x with his white spouse, she called in the police to evict him from her apartment. He said the episode left him scarred and that he now focuses only on dating African women.
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