Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh is reflecting on her reconciliation with her ex, Olakunle Churchill.
In a social media post, she said that since her reconciliation with Churchill, hundreds of women have asked how she learnt to forgive, and though she couldn’t reply to everyone, she reached out to those whose pain mirrored her own.
To God’s glory, she has helped at least 10 women reconcile, heal, and build healthy co-parenting. She noted how God turned her personal story into a tool of restoration.
“Ever since my reconciliation with my ex-husband, hundreds of women have reached out asking the same question: How did you learn to forgive?
While I couldn’t reply to everyone, I reached out to those whose pain mirrored my own. Today, to the glory of God, at least 10 women have been reconciled, restoring peace, healing hearts, and stepping into healthy co-parenting. God has truly turned my personal story into a tool for restoration.
If you are carrying bitterness today, please hear this: Forgiveness is never for the person who hurt you; it is for you. It is the key to moving your life forward. God will not inflict pain on others just because we are hurting.
It is our own responsibility to release that weight and set ourselves free.
True closure doesn’t come from people; it comes from God.
He promises to restore the years that the cankerworm has eaten. Not just days or weeks, but years. Every tear you’ve shed and every year spent in pain will be turned into a powerful testimony.
To every woman praying for peace, healing, and family restoration: may my story be a beacon of hope for you and yours. Amen”.
