Kiki Osinbajo has sparked conversations online after questioning whether marriage has become a place where women are expected to abandon their dreams and ambitions.
The social media personality reacted to content advising women on how to behave in marriage and the ways they should treat their husbands.
Expressing her concerns, Kiki asked, “Is marriage the place where women’s dreams go to d!e?”
Her question has drawn attention to the ongoing conversations about marriage, gender roles and the expectations placed on women in relationships.
While some people believe that marriage requires women to make sacrifices and adjust to their partners, others argue that such expectations should not come at the expense of their personal growth, ambitions and independence.
Kiki’s reaction has added to the broader discussion about whether advice directed at married women places too much emphasis on pleasing their husbands while giving less attention to their own happiness and aspirations.
The debate also raises questions about the importance of mutual understanding, shared responsibilities and equal support between partners in a marriage.
Read some comments below:
@ANGRY NIGERIAN 😡:”It’s even more annoying when it comes from women, especially female pastors. 😂😂”
@NA_EN_SUREPASS:”You wan dey launch book like your papa Abi Wetin 😒 her family just greased the second most powerful seat of this country with no goodwill of charity attach to their name back to the community . Her papa no sabi pass to launch book every eke market day. Now this one don dey bored for husband house cus money too much…Oya come and fry Akara for street na Wetin Remi talk…Pastors my foot 😏”
@ALABA:”This is why men need to start managing themselves Take care of yourself. Go for check-ups. Cook healthy meals. Create time for yourself. Let your children know what’s happening and who’s in charge. Don’t destroy your body, mind and mental health trying to provide food and shelter for people you love, only to expect the same care in return when you finally break down. You’re human too. You deserve to be cared for, not just needed. And the most important advice? Marry multiple wives if you can afford it 😂 All your wives cannot possibly become your enemies at the same time 😭”
@News _From _Dcoder:”Marriage should be a partnership that fuels both people’s goals, not a place where anyone’s ambitions are set aside. When two people actively support each other’s vision, marriage actually speeds up success instead of slowing it down.”
@Allison Shacole:”Why should ladies take advice from you that is not married and probably not in any relationship! Although your parents are together up until now that’s good. But still won’t take advice from you.”