A Nigerian lady, Ijeoma Chinonyerem, has said that a ‘providing man’ is not necessarily a wealthy man or one who earns more than his wife.
She stated this while reacting to a post by Damilola Christian Amadi in which he advised women to marry ‘providing’ men even if they are earning N2m monthly.
She also threw a shade at “Proverbs 31 women” married to “non-head giving, non-toilet flushing” men they provide for.
“And let me add, he said a PROVIDING man, not a man who is richer than you. A providing man provides whether you outearn him or not. It’s not a matter of account balance. It’s a mindset thing,” she wrote.
“There are women married to multimillionaires who outearn them yet these men don’t provide. They’ll be answering nwunye odogwu for mouth.
“While there are women married to men they outearn but the men provide and take up their responsibilities irrespective of who earns what.
“Again, it’s a mindset thing, not a wealth thing. Go for that mindset, not the money wey you dey see cos you fit no taste am.
“If you like, allow people use “Proverbs 31 woman” to wash your head into partnering with a non-head giving, non-toilet flushing baddie whom you provide for. As oji isi agho mgbọ that you are.”
