Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has strongly condemned the societal notion that men’s infidelity should be tolerated while women are expected to remain loyal and endure mistreatment, calling the mindset “absolute rubbish.”
In an interview with Punch, the movie star stressed that marriage should be 50-50, with faithfulness expected from both spouses, noting that cheating ruins families and hurts women.
She directed a sharp criticism at unfaithful men:
“That is rubbish. I don’t believe in it. That’s how women are victimised. I believe in a 50-50 marriage. If you want me to be faithful, stay faithful to me. Why cheat on me and treat me miserably while I remain loyal? Men who say they can’t control themselves need to respect and discipline themselves. Cheating ruins you, your family, and hurts a woman who has dedicated her life to you. Some men are well-disciplined and understand the ethics of marriage and good relationships.”
Ogbodo also offered advice to women on self-worth and walking away from draining relationships:
“I often advise women, know your worth and don’t settle for relationships that drain you emotionally or psychologically.”
She emphasized the need for self-love and recognizing abuse, even when it is not physical:
“If it’s not working, it’s not working. You don’t have to die in it. Abuse isn’t only physical; it’s also mental and psychological. When a woman is made to feel less than herself, that is abuse. A woman should love herself enough to walk away when her wants and needs aren’t met.”