A Nigerian doctor, Chioma Onwuelingo, has addressed the double standards when it comes to judging women in regards to the monetization of relationships and sex.
In a Facebook post on Thursday, the sex therapist pointed out how people are quick to judge women for putting a price tag on their bodies instead of tackling the root of the problem which she blamed on lack of self control on the part of men.
“We scream when we are touched where it hurts most. A society filled with double standards is a society not ready to grow and evolve,” she wrote.
Once a woman speaks, we are quick to find faults and bring out our morality wands to drive home the point yet keep mute when men do same
We must teach our youths that SEX IS FOR THE MARRIED and only when that is collectively portrayed by the society will this menace end .
You meet a girl today and you are ready to get her laid but it becomes evil when she puts a price to her body
While we condemn the monetisation of relationships and sex, teach your sons to have self control over their private parts.
Married men lure young girls to do the unthinkable by spending tons of cash.. and the ladies are forced to play ball and won’t back off till they get a piece of your waist
Our children must be protected should start from teaching them ABSTINENCE and not attacking the symptoms instead of he disease
Do not be a hypocrite and call a SPADE what it is. When you approach a girl for he sole aim of drinking from her fountain, You loose every right to refuse to pay her
Oloshoism is on the increase because of lack of self control cos if NO ONE IS SELLING, NO ONE IS BUYING (Vice Versa)
Maintain this same energy in all issues and our society will be better for it
As we EMBRACE the wordings of our new anthem.. Nigeria we hail thee.. let’s learn to turn our energies to what really matters. Peace.
